• Dial 911

    Dial 911

    I have always taken for granted having the opportunity to call 911. They’re the ones you call when you need a police officer, ambulance, firefighter, or simply just needing someone to help. If you have ever used 911, you know exactly what I’m talking about. They know exactly where you are, where to come and what services to send. But what happens when they don’t.

    My story begin the summer of June 2025. We bought a mobile home to place on our new land. There is nothing easy about this process, it is very stressful. I had to make sure we had the right paperwork, permits, codes, and inspection. First, I had to get a 911 address. I could not have any electricity cut on until I was provided this address. The 911 address is provided by our local 911 office. You fill out a form stating where the property is located as well as the information off the deed. I fill out the proper paperwork and return it to there office. In return they give me the address. Everything begin to fall into place and we moved in our home July 2025.

    Jump forward 6 months later. Winter January 2026. We were sitting around the house one cold Saturday morning. Talking about our day and making plans. When my husband stood up and walked to the refrigerator. As I sit in the recliner, I notice him rubbing his right leg. After asking what’s was going on he proceeded to tell me he had a bad cramp. The next thing I know he stated “now it’s moved to my other leg”. And down he went. Out cold.

    I jump to my feet shouting and screaming his name. No response. He is passed out, white lips, skin cold and clammy. Panic set in. I begin calling 911. I held his head on my lap while patting his face. The 911 center answered. I begin praise God someone will be here soon to help. Boy was I wrong. I gave the center my information, what was going on, and my location. The female from the 911 center said “ma’am we don’t have that address on file.”

    Wait, what, you don’t have my address on file. I did the paperwork 6 months ago. So now what! I watch a-lot of true crime. So I said “Can you locate me by my phone signal”. The female at the 911 center stated “no ma’am we can’t do that.” Oh, great my husband barely knows he is in the world and 911 has no idea where to find me.

    Think Carmon Think. I grab my husband’s phone and begin calling my older sister. She lives ten minutes up the road. She surely can get here and help me. When she answers the phone her response is “We’re not home. But, tell the 911 center one of the county hospital EMT’s staff lives right down the road. And I will call mama she is home.”

    Great idea sister. So, I begin telling the 911 center where I live, who I live by etc. There response was “Ma’am I’m gonna have to call you back.” What! Are you kidding me! I am upset, scared, and mad. By this time my mama has called my husband’s phone and states she was on the way.

    Think Carmon Think. My husband with his head in my lap , sweating, and clammy, begins to come around. Still confused and white as a sheet he looks at me. Ok now I have got to get a game plan to get him to the hospital. I cannot tote him. I need help and 911 is gonna call me back.

    Breath Carmon and think it through. My sister will be here in about 30 minutes. My mom will be here in about 15 minutes. I don’t have our neighbors number that is currently a EMT. Then God. He slap me in the face. He said “Carmon call Josh.” Yes Lord! Thank you Jesus! Josh!

    I begin calling our friend Josh. Who is employed with our local police department. He will know who to call and what to do. I called his phone no answer. Sent him a text message that stated “Emergency please answer.”. Then I called his phone again and praise the Lord he answered. I begin to tell him about my husband and about the 911 center not being able to find me. With the most calming voice he begins to tell me “ Calm down! Breathe! He is speaking and looking at you that’s a good sign! Let me get to my scanner in my car because I am off today and see if we can get you some help.” I hear him talk into the scanner “All first responders in the area please respond to this street.”

    With in two minutes guys begin pulling up. All the family I contacted begin pulling in. They were able to get the ambulance to our home. Then transported him to the hospital. Everyone from my home, hospital, nurses, and doctors were truly amazing.

    After visiting two hospitals that day and several doctor’s appointments later. We finally had an answer to the fainting. Vasovagal Syncope: Intense physical pain from severe muscle cramps can overstimulate the vagus nerve. This causes your blood vessels to dilate and your heart rate to slow down, dropping blood pressure and causing you to faint. Who knew such a thing could happen. Leave it to my husband.

    I bet you’re wondering if the lady from 911 ever called me back. Honestly, that day was such a blur I don’t remember if she did or didn’t.

    When an emergency comes about it’s nice to live in a small town and know help is only a phone call away. Dial 911.

  • My Turn

    My Turn

    I am your ride or die. I will do anything for you. I will go wherever you invite me. I want you to know I will show up. I will be there. I will support you. But there are so many times I don’t get that in return.

    You know those feelings when you try to get your children, family, or friends to go places you enjoy. “Hey I will pay if you would just go with us.”. But they never want to go. So instead you cancel your plans or never make the plans. You feel guilty for leaving your loved ones behind. What if they need me while I’m away. I have felt these feelings far too many times.

    I feel each one of these to my core. I enjoy going on adventures and making memories. I have always felt adventures and memories were more valuable than any worldly possessions. But if I leave the ones I love behind it leaves an empty space in my heart. I never get to truly enjoy the adventure that awaits. I always find myself saying “I wish she or he would have come”, “I know she or he would have loved this”, “Am I being selfish for not staying home” or “Why do you think he or she would not enjoy this”.

    When is it my turn? There will come a day when adventures will be no more.When that days comes I will say “It is my turn Lord”!Take me on the best adventure!

  • It Goes By Fast

    It Goes By Fast

    Man ol man how many times have you heard the statement “It goes by fast”, “Enjoy the time you have” and “they are only yours for 18 years”.

    As my children grew up, many family members, friends, and people I didn’t even know, would say these quotes to me. I would always shake my head and say “yeah”. While thinking I’m tired, they’re tired. I’m overthinking, they’re not thinking. They’re my best friend and they have their own friends. Me and my husband were doing the best we knew how to.

    We raised our kids in a loving home. And no matter what we provided for their needs, maybe not all their wants. But every need was met. We made sure each year we took a family vacation. I always felt adventures would be sketched in their memory. And I always wanted them to remember that no matter what mama and daddy took the time to love on them.

    I guess all those quotes during their childhood was to prepare me for the teenage years. The young adult years. The time they don’t need me. The moments you miss with their friends. Their own adventures. The quietness. The cleanness. The stillness. The question, what are we going to do today? My heart was not ready. My mind was not ready.

    I made my children my world. Now, I have to learn how to live in a world where they learn about life experiences. I remind them daily I am a phone call away. I will gladly was your clothes, scrub your ball pants, be by your side while you are sick, and hug you tight when the world is overwhelming.

    When you hear these quotes from family, friends, or even strangers, take them in. Enjoy each moment. Life goes by so fast. And one day you have to release your world into the world. You got this mama! You got this dad! We prepared them for this release!

  • Why Blogging?

    Why Blogging?

    I have been asked several times. Why do you want to blog? What is blogging?

    Why do I want to blog? That’s a good question. As I have become older I truly enjoy reading. I enjoy the simpler things in life. Like sitting at home on a Saturday with no plans. But I also find myself reflecting on past experiences. And as I reflect, I think to myself what if someone else is going through what I myself have been through or if someone is experiencing the same thing as me presently. That is my purpose in blogging.

    What is Blogging? Blogging to me is like an online diary. One that you can come to daily and type out your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. It’s and outlet where others can hear your voice without hearing your voice. Where you can be free to say what you would like to say. Without hesitation or judgment.

    With those questions behind us. Let’s get to blogging.

    Thank you for taking the time to read my blog.